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PRODUCT OF THE DAY: SLEEP PHONES HEADPHONES

Noisy roommates or a snoring partner can make catching some zzzs next to impossible. And to make matters worse, lack of sleep is no excuse for your cranky attitude at work the next morning. There’s a quick fix for this dilemma, though. SleepPhones Headphones have hidden earphones safely housed in a fleece headband, so you can comfortably sleep while your tunes drown out any noise.

A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE BREAK UP!!

Getting dumped sucks, no matter what time period you lived in. Six different time periods break down the break-up styles, given to you by a comic strip.

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BEST BLING EVER

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Nothing like a recession to make you want to see 41 pieces of the most insane bling ever

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BON JOVI ROCKS ON

Jon Bon Jovi sustained a minor injury to his leg at a concert in New Jersey over the weekend, but he performed Livin On A Prayer anyway. Rock on

COMEDIAN BLASTS HECKLER

Watch as comedian Bryson Turner nails this heckler’s balls to the wall

DOG VS BABY

If your dog is smarter than your baby, you have problems

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DATING AND INSECURITIES MOST WOMEN FACE

Admit it, you have insecurities – we all do. Big, small, man, woman, whatever – we ALL are insecure at times. For women though, no matter how well they present themselves to the outside world, they have a few, common, nagging insecurities - especially when it comes to dating. With that said, here are just a few of the things that a woman tends to worry about when it comes to dating or being in a relationship (thanks, Askmen.com). So men, you are the “YOU” talked about below, so pay attention on how you can make her feel more secure.

Her dating insecurities:

1. You might not call her after the date - Following through with what you’ve promised her is the first step to building a woman’s trust. So, if you say you are going to call her on Thursday, call her on Thursday. If you say Friday, do it. If that’s not your style, though, or you’d like to keep her attention, just don’t be definite about when you’ll be calling. It’s better than breaking a promise, and at least she won’t be waiting by the phone on a particular day.

2. You just want to sleep with her - It’s a hard line to walk: If you make a move too soon, she’ll think that’s all you want. If you wait too long, she’ll think you’re just interested in her friendship. The best way to work this is to just be sincere. If you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with her, let her know. From there, she’ll give you the signals to let you know when she’s ready to get romantic with you.

3. You’re dating other women - It is perfectly acceptable to casually date more than one woman at the same time - as long as you are honest about it. So, if you are dating multiple women, don’t lie about it. You don’t have to bring it up in the conversation, but if she does, be honest. Once you start sleeping together or things seem to take a turn for the serious, she might assume you’re exclusive, so it’s only fair to let her know if that’s not the case.

4. You’re not that interested - Even the most confident woman sometimes needs a little affirmation that you’re interested in her. You could let her know by telling her outright or through a gesture, such as sending her flowers or calling her in the middle of the day - just a little hint to let her know that she’s special to you.

Her relationship insecurities:

5. You’re cheating on her - Ask yourself the following question: Why is she insecure that I’m going to cheat on her? Have you given her a reason by cheating in the past? If that’s the case, we’d be hard pressed to say that she’s being irrational. If that’s not the case, however, you have to discuss the issue head-on and let her know that you are committed and have no intention of cheating.

6. She’s not satifying you in bed - Just like men, women have a lot of performance anxiety in the bedroom. If things are going well in that department, make sure to let her know. If not, however, be sure to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible. For example, don’t tell her, “I don’t like the way you…” Instead, tell her, “Let’s try it this way…”

7. You’re not attracted to her anymore - Just because you are a few years into a relationship, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t need reassurance anymore. In fact, because you are a few years into a relationship, you have to work extra hard to let her know that you still find her attractive. Remember to compliment her and let her know that she still has it. This will reap rewards for you too - it’ll help keep your romance alive.

8. Another woman is stealing your attention - Do you flirt with other women in front of her? If you do this consistently, we don’t blame her for feeling insecure in this department. There is nothing wrong with harmless flirting - but when you’re with her, devote all your attention to her. You can flirt on your own time.

FITNESS SHORTS FREEZE AWAY YOUR FAT

The latest way to burn fat without actually doing anything: FreezeAwayFat Cool Shape shorts, which promise to - you guessed it - freeze away fat. Turns out there may actually be something to it. The shorts, which come with gel inserts to freeze and then wear, promise to activate “good” brown fat cells, which burn calories, while killing off “bad” white fat cells.

Cool temperatures can in fact activate brown fat cells, one doctor has said, but he’s less sure about the claim that cold will also kill white fat cells. It’s “not exactly rigorous science,” Dr. Deardorff concludes. “Still, even if there’s no evidence showing the polyester/Lycra shorts can help you freeze your butt off, they are certainly refreshing.” So if you don’t mind the $89.95 price tag, simply wear them on a hot July day.